i hope all bi girls are having a beautiful day and if ur a bi girl who’s not having a good day i am sending u my love u deserve all the good days in the world
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You wanna know why I’m in love with you?“ He asked as he ran his hand along my jaw.
“Sure,” I answered feeling as if my heart could explode at any moment.
“ I fell in love with the way your laugh is always the loudest in the movie theater or the way your facial expressions always give away how you feel. The way you smile & freak out when you see puppies makes my heart want you. Or when you take a shower & your hair starts to curl. & when you say you hate it I don’t understand because to me it’s fucking beautiful. I fell in love with the way you feel so intensely. & your sarcasm is something that I just can’t live without. & the way you want everyone to be happy gives me hope that not everyone in the world is cruel. I love how sunsets and thunderstorm bring you pure joy. & you have the faith of a child that makes me want to protect you even though you’re the strongest person I know. I’m in love with everything that has to do with you.
E.M.S {Everything you fell in love with} (via qu0tationmarks)
The Quiet Borderline
The designation “quiet borderline” describes a personality style sometimes present among people with borderline personality disorder (BPD), but one that isn’t well known. When we think of a person with BPD, we often imagine someone who angers quickly, who rages, cries and throws tantrums—who is unable to keep herself from expressing negative emotions in an outward and punishing way. Someone who is a “quiet borderline” rarely exhibits acting out behaviors and instead “acts in.” Acting in refers to hostility, aggression, anger and other potentially self-injurious emotions being internalized rather than verbalized or used to fuel behaviors that impact others. This constant internalization of intense negative emotions often means that others are unaware of the extent to which people with “quiet” BPD experience despair and pain. Even the individuals who have it may be unwilling or unable to acknowledge the possibility of a BPD diagnosis for a long time, as some of the more characteristic behaviors common to BPD may not seem to apply to them. However, any person diagnosed with BPD—whether “quiet” or not—will have met the diagnostic criteria.
People with “quiet” BPD often experience a sense of isolation and a lack of connection to the outside world. They may spend a great deal of time and energy rationalizing and denying the effects of their unstable emotions, then harming themselves psychologically or even physically, in despair over their inability to feel in control. They may feel confident one moment and deeply self-hating the next. This inconstancy in self-appraisal is common to all people who suffer from BPD; the difference is that those with “quiet” BPD are far likelier to hide this emotional reality from their loved ones in a way that eventually becomes painfully isolating.
Source: What is ‘Quiet’ Borderline?
the signs as songs that became memes
ARIES: Gangnam Style // Psy
TAURUS: Photograph // Nickelback
GEMINI: Crawling // Linkin Park
CANCER: A Thousand Miles // Vanessa Carlton
VIRGO: Careless Whisper // George Michael
LIBRA: Wonderwall // Oasis
SCORPIO: The Sound Of Silence // Simon & Garfunkel
SAGITTARIUS: Never Gonna Give You Up // Rick Astley
CAPRICORN: Last Resort // Papa Roach
AQUARIUS: Ocean Man // Ween
PISCES: Bring Me To Life // Evanescence
I’m a pisces and it is so accurate.
a monthly reminder that having a period doesn’t make you a girl and that you don’t have to get periods to be a girl
shoutout to the genuinely nice girls who tell u ur hair looks good or ask where u got ur jeans from or gently let u know if u have lipstick on ur teeth…..u make the world a better place
He sits in his yard
In jeans and flannel
Hair evaporating storm clouds
Eyes a sky a pretty blankness
A younger man digs out dead grass
The older one has a bandage
A lean body without fitness
He smiles as Americans do
At passersby, but his eyes…
They don’t admit I’m really there
I ache a little for things we lose
For lack of understanding
Our fuzzy world views that can’t see,
Beyond the thoughts that swarm our heads
Does he know in that white-washed look,
Where it went wrong? Can we ever,
Crawl out of holes we dig ourselves?
love is love, no matter how platonic or romantic. as long as theres some love or a lot of love, i love you.
IF YOU WANNA BE MY LOVER
are u sure? like are u really sure? have u seen me? u did not think this through
It’s terrifying, isn’t it?”
"What?“ he asked.
"That we’re all so small,“ she said, turning her face to the stars. “And that we live such complicated lives. Do you ever think about that? The fact that every person in rush hour traffic has a first kiss and a favorite person and something that makes them cry on the spot. I mean, there’s billions of us on this one little speck overthinking what the hell we’re doing with our lives. Constantly planning and worrying and discovering. Knowing all along we’re just a dot in the universe. A tiny little crumb. Practically invisible.”
She paused to take a breath, her lungs expanding until she could hold no more, and then she whispered, “It’s terrifying to me that we can be so small and so enormous at the same time.
excerpt from a book I’ll never write // 27 (via yourhandwrittenletter)